Life is annoying isn’t it?
society and its labels hurt it more.
Is your family really family or is it family solely because of biological and or contract reason and everyone around tells you to value the idea of family. the concept of unconditional that many believe only exits in this one area in nature. Your tribe who will not caste you out and forgive all your mistakes, all the laws you break and adjust to you. In a sense its all fake, is all flavor added to your life by the chef named society.
I Think real family is the one you chose to be with.
The rest is just you being on an island and just making the best of it.