Having self confidence is always good ,because you are able to perform better in anything you are doing. The question is, what happens when you are forcing yourself to have self confidence? I read an article called ,”Insecurity, self esteem, self confidence…what does it all mean?”, and you will find the article at http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/articles/insecurity/. The article elaborates on the topic of feeling self confidence. Its best that you don’t force yourself to feel a certain way, you should let feelings come to you naturally .
If you force yourself to feel self confident in any given situation you are in and nothing results in success ,consequently you will feel insecure. Have you ever accomplished something and you realized that during that time you didn’t think about doing it perfect? Everything came out naturally and you felt a tremendous amount of self confidence. It’s always best to let things come naturally.